Sometimes in life we let tensions build up because we afraid to let the other person know where we stand. We come to resent the things that bother us in others that we ourselves are afraid to point out.
The other day, the BF (JB), and I had an argument. We both shouted our needs, disappointments, and desires in a desperate attempt to be understood. I’m not saying that yelling at each other is the way to go but sometimes it helps to release all of the pent-up frustration that can come from two separate entities attempting to forge their lives together.
We’re both strong-willed and set in our ways. There are things that both of us need to make us feel essential and important that the other is not always able to give. It’s the ability to continue to build and grow together even after these superficial fractures that make it possible to continue to strive towards somethings bigger.
“The difference from ordinary and extraordinary is a little extra effort.”
Here are the flowers that JB had delivered to my office today!